See How 200+ Men Went From “Living on Autopilot to Thriving” To Thinking Straight, Leading Themselves Again, And Coming Home More Present

After pandemic depression and missing male bonding, I found this 'vacation with a purpose.
Fred
I found balance across all areas, physically fit in one week, mentally rejuvenated through circles with other men, and spiritually renewed.
Muzaffar
This retreat impacted my life deeply. The breathwork, plant medicine, hikes to waterfalls, and fires by the beach helped me find myself in ways I never expected.
Warner
"Fresh off divorce, I felt completely lost and didn't want easy escapes. I needed to go through the fire. What I found was the ability to handle pain, face loneliness, and come out better, not just less pain, but as a better human being."
Ramero
"This group of men helped crack open my shell. Now I have an open heart, a different mindset, and a balanced way of thinking."
Rio
Ed Daly
Joel
Welington
Akeem
Steve
Jack
Moris
Stepen
“The Brotherhood That Lasts. Two Months Later, Still Connected”
Sam
“From Bankruptcy and Breakdown to Brotherhood and Clarity”
Daniel
“At 60, I Discovered a New Version of Myself”
Jeff
“From Financial Ruin to Fearless Living”
Victor
“The Breathwork That Released Years of Negative Self-Talk”
Nicodemus
“Why I Came Back for a Second Retreat”
Nuserullah
“Finding Myself Again During Cancer Recovery”
Robert
“From Lonely and Angry to Finding My Family”
John
"A transformative mix of introspective activities and physical challenges, open water swim, hike, self-defense. We went from strangers to brothers in days and stayed connected since.
Michael
“Cancer Survivor Finds Clarity and Confidence”
Bob
“A 90-Minute Conversation That Changed My Path”
Joe
“Learning to Live Fearlessly After Years of Fear”
Rob

Trusted By High-Performing Men Who Lead Teams And Families

From Skeptic to Believer: Profound Personal Insights

Initially hesitant and reluctant—not interested in sharing feelings—but genuine conversations with Ahren and Terry convinced me. Participated in boxing, hiking, swimming, and surfing. Despite reservations, I experienced profound personal insights dealing with divorce, parents' death, and relationship concerns. The retreat allowed open discussion without judgment, leading to significant changes in how I interact with family and friends. Strong endorsement—ready to participate again.

Eddie Barnett
Eddie Barnett

A Life-Changing Experience

A life-changing experience at The Balanced Man Retreat in Nosara, Costa Rica. The blend of physical activities, breathwork, group circles, and personal reflection was transformative. Terry, Ahren, and Jeremy brought unique expertise with a personalized approach. Despite initial apprehension, the atmosphere was warm and genuine. By week's end, I felt deep connection with other participants. Highly recommended for rediscovering oneself and gaining clarity and confidence.

Wellington Fonseca
Wellington Fonseca

Exceeded Expectations—Physically, Emotionally, and Mentally

Participated in the retreat to take a break from busy life and realign priorities. The retreat exceeded expectations, providing a transformative experience that challenged me physically, emotionally, and mentally. Ahren, Terry, and Jeremy's positive influence helped me overcome internal barriers, learn practical tools, and develop meaningful connections. Highly recommend and plan to return regularly—a life-changing experience.

Chris Ferrarone
Chris Ferrarone

Clarity and Confidence Through Transformation

Attended The Balanced Man Retreat in Costa Rica for the May 2025 retreat. A transformative experience that provided clarity and confidence. I encourage others to attend for personal growth and authenticity.

Lance Pitts
Lance Pitts

Surpassed My Perceived Limits

The Balanced Man Retreat was a significant and empowering experience. Surrounded by ambitious, like-minded individuals with a sense of belonging and camaraderie in a safe environment for vulnerability and support. Beautiful location with varied, delicious food. The facilitators and group dynamic allowed deep personal inquiry and emotional expression. I surpassed my perceived limits and grew personally, gaining lessons, insights, and new friendships. I remain in touch with people I met and plan to return. Highly recommended for personal growth and self-awareness.

Ross Perkin
Ross Perkin

Rediscovered the Missing Part of Myself

Went on the retreat to rediscover a missing part of myself. Found a renewed sense of confidence and a version of myself that my family needs. The experience was life-changing. I recommend the retreat to other men searching for something they've lost internally. I plan to return regularly.

Jesse Shelton
Jesse Shelton

Helped Me Escape a Difficult Period in My Life

Positive experience at TBM retreat with significant value and enlightenment. Initially skeptical, but the comfort and genuine care from the founders overcame that. My first solo trip greatly impacted me, helping escape a difficult period. The retreat offered tools to balance mind, body, and spirit, and helped process past trauma. Plan to make it an annual event. You don't need trauma to attend—highly recommend experiencing it for yourself.

Jack SanFelice
Jack SanFelice

My Significant and Recurring Vacation Experience

Attended two Balanced Man retreats and express satisfaction with the experience. A beneficial and enjoyable event highlighting personal growth and connections with others. I view this retreat as a significant and recurring vacation experience. Highly recommended.

Tim Jackson
Tim Jackson

More Than Physical Activities—Life Lessons and Courage

Attended the Balanced Man retreat in May 2024. Initially reluctant but encouraged by my wife. The retreat offered more than physical activities—it provided a safe environment for expressing emotions and learning important life lessons like leading your day actively. Gained courage, adopted new skills like journaling and morning routines, and formed genuine connections. Physical activities included Krav Maga, boxing, hiking, surfing, and archery. Highly recommend for personal growth and meaningful connections.

Fred Lopez
Fred Lopez

Pushed Outside My Comfort Zone in a Safe Environment

The Balanced Man retreat was a transformative week. I pushed outside my comfort zone in a safe environment, connected deeply with other men, engaged in personal introspection, and received support. Enjoyed fun activities, playing, and amazing food at a beautiful venue. Highly recommended for men ready to seek change.

Spencer Hicks
Spencer Hicks

Connections That Surpassed Friendships Back Home

My third Balanced Man Retreat. A supportive environment where I connected deeply with other participants, likened to brothers. Over seven days, I opened up, was vulnerable, and supported each other, forming connections that surpassed many friendships back home. Explored deeper emotions, overcame inner conflicts, and realized personal capabilities beyond perceived limits. Left with insights, inner release, and new friendships. Strong recommendation for enhancing self-awareness and personal growth.

Nuserullah Quraishi
Nuserullah Quraishi

An Immense Sense of Brotherhood

This was a transformational experience for me and brought me an immense sense of brotherhood. I left the retreat with great tools to integrate into my life.

Jakob Roussos
Jakob Roussos

Feels Good to Invest in Yourself

It was a great experience to connect with these new brothers and do the work. Feels good to invest in yourself and see the results transpire day by day. Highly recommended.

Edward Daly
Edward Daly

Professional Instructors, Life-Changing Results

The Balanced Man Retreat was a life-changing experience that I recommend to other men. The instructors were professional, and I faced physical, mental, and spiritual challenges during the retreat that transformed me.

Jacob Levy
Jacob Levy

Rejuvenated, Alive, and Renewed Sense of Purpose

7-day Balanced Man Retreat in Costa Rica was a transformative experience focused on physical, mental, and spiritual growth. Felt challenged and supported with attentive facilitators who tailored the program to my skill level. By the end, I felt rejuvenated, alive, and had a renewed sense of purpose. Highly recommend for those interested in personal development—an incredible journey of self-discovery and growth.

Oh My (Local Guide)
Oh My (Local Guide)

No Words to Appreciate What They Did for Me

It was a life changing experience. I have no words to appreciate what these gentlemen did for me.

Luis Guillermo Quesada Herradora
Luis Guillermo Quesada Herradora

A Once in a Lifetime Experience

A retreat organized by the right men. A well-balanced experience described as a once in a lifetime experience, although I plan to return for maintenance. Thank you.

Mike Cormier
Mike Cormier

Essential for Every Man—A Calling, Not Just a Recommendation

Life-changing experience with workouts, nature, friendship, and feeling part of a supportive group. I recommend this as essential for every man—a calling rather than just a recommendation. Beneficial for gaining a new perspective on life and resetting body, mind, and soul. Gratitude to Terry Bullman (The Sensei) and The Balanced Man team.

Victor Huizar
Victor Huizar

Connected to My Values, Voice, and Vision

Felt a need for change and was carrying an unnamed weight. The retreat exceeded expectations with its intentional and respectful environment that facilitated personal growth and trust. I shared something deeply personal and was met with support rather than judgment. After the retreat, I feel more connected to my values, voice, and vision, leaving with newfound clarity, tools, and a sense of brotherhood.

Francisco Sánchez
Francisco Sánchez

A Sense of Accomplishment Not Felt in Decades

Attended The Balanced Man to test my limits and had an adventurous time. Guided by Ahren, Terry, and Jeremy through a week of self-discovery, camaraderie, healing, and education with humor. Left with new friends and a sense of accomplishment not felt in decades. Impressed by advances in health science learned there. The accommodations, food, and staff were plush, fresh, and welcoming. First-class experience.

Steve Leach
Steve Leach

The Power of Honesty—Invaluable for Getting Unstuck

Had an amazing experience with a diverse group of men exploring the power of honesty. This interaction was both self-reflective and supportive, leading to a reset and recalibration of priorities. An invaluable experience for getting unstuck.

Bob Stevens
Bob Stevens

The Perfect Reset for Busy Men

This was my third visit to a TBM retreat and I plan to return in six months. I enjoy it and describe the retreat as a reset for busy men. Recommended for those seeking adventure and a kickstart.

Joe Minard
Joe Minard

More Balanced Than Other Men's Retreats

Attended the retreat in December 2024 at 38 years old. Highly positive and enriching experience. This retreat is more balanced than other men's retreats. Benefits include growth, life tools, fun, and improved relationships. Strongly encourage others to participate if interested in personal growth and change. Participants will benefit from the experience.

Gerardo Javier Rodriguez
Gerardo Javier Rodriguez

Discovered My True Self and Felt Playful

Grateful to the team for providing a pleasant and life-changing event. This was my second retreat, and each provided unimaginable experiences. This retreat, meant exclusively for men, helped me discover my true self and feel playful while finding authenticity.

Marek Kluga
Marek Kluga

Body, Mind, Soul, and Heart Connection

Had an amazing experience over a week, highlighting the people, location, and food. Emphasized the support from coordinators and recommend the experience for body, mind, soul, and heart connection within a community.

Joel Villalobos
Joel Villalobos

A Haven and Sacred Path for Personal Evolution

The retreat has contributed to personal growth in my life, soul, and heart. I'm a facilitator and have attended every retreat for the last two years. The experience is more than just a job—it's a haven and a sacred path for personal perspective and progress. Gratitude to The Balanced Man and past and future attendees for providing a space for personal evolution.

Jeremy Jackson
Jeremy Jackson

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